A grown-up app for gay and queer men.
Privacy isn’t premium. No pricing tricks. Your inbox, your photos, your terms.
No data sold.
Revenue is subscriptions. Data brokering is never on the table. No ads at launch.
No boosts. No coins.
One flat upgrade. Same price for everyone. Nothing to buy mid-use to get ahead.
Built by users.
Self-funded and independent. No investors. We use these apps ourselves.
MESSAGING
New messages earn your attention.
Messages from new people go to Requests. You decide what makes it to your inbox. One tap to accept, ignore, or block.
- Verified users are marked so you know who's real
- Mutual taps skip Requests automatically
- Your inbox stays clean by default
ALBUMS
Share on your terms. Revoke on your time.
You create albums. You name them. You decide who gets access and for how long. Revoke instantly.
- You pick who sees each album.
- You set the time limit, or leave it open until you revoke.
- You get watermarks on every photo you share.
MOOD
Say what you’re looking for without saying a word.
A 4-level slider that broadcasts your energy to nearby users. Auto-expires so it's always current, never stale.
MEET MODE
There when you’re meeting someone. Invisible when you’re not.
Meet Mode appears in your conversation the moment you’re planning to meet. Check-in timer, live location sharing with trusted contacts, and a quick exit. Nothing to turn on. Nothing in the way when you don’t need it.
PRICING
Flat pricing. Safety by default.
Every safety tool is free — Appear Offline, location fuzzing, disappearing photos, consent-based albums, discreet notifications, blocks. Premium adds who’s viewing you, private browsing, and higher limits. One flat price. No boosts, no coins, no pay-to-win.
Free
no credit card required
- Unlimited messaging
- Appear Offline + location fuzzing
- Discreet notifications + unlimited blocks
- 3 albums (10 photos each)
- Disappearing photos (5/day)
- 200 profiles in grid + Online Now filter
- Mood + Meet Mode
- Typing indicators
Premium
$10.99/mo on iOS · $99.99/yr (save 17%)
- Everything in Free
- See who viewed you (coming soon)
- See who tapped you
- Private browsing + incognito
- Unlimited disappearing media
- 10 albums (20 photos each)
- Unlimited grid + advanced filters
- Read receipts + unsend
You pay for convenience. Never for safety. Never for games.
QUESTIONS
Straight answers.
Is my data sold?
No. We don't sell data — period. Revenue comes from Premium subscriptions, not ads or data brokering. If that model ever changes, we'll tell you plainly before it happens.
How does location fuzzing work?
Your exact location is never shared with other users. We add a random offset (roughly ±200m) before any distance is calculated, so nearby users see your general area — not your building, not your street.
Can I use the app discreetly?
Yes. Appear Offline hides your online status from everyone, always — free, by default. Private Browsing (Premium) goes further: when you view someone’s profile, you don’t appear in their “viewed by” list. One protects you. The other is an active stealth tool. Both are available.
What happens when I block someone?
They can't see your profile, send you messages, or access any of your albums. All existing access is revoked instantly. They are not notified. No grace period, no exceptions.
What’s NOT in Premium?
No boosts. No coins. No profile bumping for cash. No priority queue for messages you send. No ads in your chats. No consumables you burn through. Premium is a flat upgrade for convenience and insight — not an in-app economy.
How is this different from Grindr?
Safety tools are free, not paywalled. One flat Premium — no coins, no boosts, no profile bumps, no pay-to-win. Photo sharing is consent-first: you grant access per person, time-bound, and you can revoke instantly. Your inbox has Requests: new messages earn a spot, they don’t land uninvited. That’s the whole model.
WHY WE BUILT THIS
We use these apps too. Built by people who actually use them — self-funded, independent, no investors. We’re not fixing how you use the app. We’re fixing what these apps became.
Get Early Access
We'll email you once — when we launch.
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One email when we’re ready. That’s it.